I experienced some thing from one of my friend. He was expressing his thoughts to me and I came to know that he was not feeling well because his ex girl friend is happy with some other guy. I asked him why you are so unhappy? He had no answer. Practically or theoretically there should be no reason to be offended. If you have broken up completely from your mind, nothing should matters regarding your ex. But life doesn’t follow any theoretical knowledge. I came to know a new part of human psychology. "You will feel unhappy if you see your ex is happy with a new partner, until and unless you are engaged with somebody else."
One of my college friend (Pracheta) siad after reading this :
ReplyDelete"Its perhaps bcoz it leads u to a feeling that u couldnt make the person happy whom u loved and somebdy else did that..... whch possibly hurts the ego thinking that the othr person is superior.. and nobdy is evr happy to see anybdy else bettr than him............ and whn u get in2 anothr relatn.. if that person is happy... u r also happy.... it creates a feeling of self satisfaction that 'i hv done it.. i made the persn happy whom i love..."